Monthly Archives: February 2012

Everything I know I learned from RPGs

It’s nice to know there’s a place in the world where I can seek refuge away from reality, a place where I have some control, where I can make a difference and where uncertainty can be cured with an in-depth walkthrough found on the Internet. A place with magic too.

I must have been around 6 or 7 the first time I played a role-playing video game – Dragon Warrior, on my cousin’s Nintendo. It was epic – the music of that game still haunts me. My next encounter was many years later only – it took me a looong time to convince my parents to buy a console – when Alex and I stumbled on Final Fantasy VII and were flabbergasted by the depth of its world and characters – and again, the music.

Of course, spending so much time in a made-up universe developing skills for made-up characters might seem silly. But if I think about it, these games taught me many valuable lessons. Not that I need to justify my time with the PS3 or anything.

Live with purpose

Life is much better when you have clear goals.

Keep a quests journal

Back in the day, one had to take notes (on paper!) of the clues gathered during the numerous quests of the game. These days, there’s always some sort of quest diary in which every new task unlocked is recorded. Be it a to-do list or a full progress report for all your projects, it helps to have things on paper (or on file) – for better planning AND posterity.

Take the time to level up – but don’t over do it

At the beginning of a game, it always pays to do random battles in order to level up your characters. But after a certain level, it take so much experience points to get to the next level that it isn’t worth it anymore. The difference between one level and another isn’t significant enough to justify the amount of time spent getting there. Plus, there’s probably missions and special marks you could do to earn more experience points.

While it’s important to take the time to hone a skill, it’s important to know where to focus your efforts and when to stop. Perfect is pointless, most of the time.

It’s in the little things…

Sure, saving the world is fun… but let’s admit it, there’s just as much fun to be had in the non-epic stuff like browsing the shops, playing the mini-games, collecting stupid items, interacting with other characters, doing silly side quests, amassing tons of money, etc.

Same goes for real life. Sure, it’s great to have a big project to work on, but it’s important to indulge in the small things too.

Ditch the extensive walkthrough

Sometime when I play I get obsessed with the idea of a perfect game: finding every single treasures, unlocking the best items, getting all the trophies. To do so, you almost have no choice but to follow a walkthrough, and boy do that suck the fun out of the game! Instead of playing my way through the game and the story, I end up following a bunch of instructions. Dull.

There’s at least 2 lessons there: first, never forget the true reason you’re doing something (my reason to play is to escape and have fun); second: knowledge is great, but too much of it can be detrimental to progress.

(I still do check out strategy guides – it’s always nice to have an edge – but I don’t follow them step-by-step…)

Gather a good team around you

What’s a hero without his company of fellow adventurers? A great team of characters with diverse skills and specialties is your best assets if you’re trying to save the world. It’s just as important if you’re trying to make it better.

Take a break at the inn

In RPG world, a night at the inn usually means full health recovery. In real life, that can be applied many ways: either literally – book yourself some vacations! – or figuratively – just have a good night sleep! You’ll be all the better for it…

If you’re stuck in your quest, go to the pub/tavern

You never know what people you’ll meet with important information and clues… Or, you know, it might just be fun.

Enter the Dragon: Chinese New Year Celebration in San Francisco!

Last Saturday was the famous Chinese New Year Parade in San Francisco, and we joined hundreds of thousands of San Franciscan to celebrate the coming of what promises to be an exciting year…

In Chinese astrology, 2012 is the Year of the Dragon – considered the luckiest year in the Chinese Zodiac! The theme of a Dragon year is fast change and exciting challenges – how fitting considering the big changes we’re about to face?

The Chinese New Year parade is a big deal in San Francisco and I couldn’t wait to experience it first hand. The celebrations begin the first day of the Chinese New Year and spread for two weeks to culminate in the biggest Chinese New Year parade in North America.

We decided to walk through Chinatown to get a taste of the fair before heading for the parade. As you can see on the picture above, we weren’t the only one! We made our way on Grant street, which was packed with street vendors, kiosks, tourists and locals. I didn’t know where to point my camera, I was so totally overwhelmed by everything happening around! Firecrackers left on the sidewalk would fire up under our steps – and I could only grin thinking how all of this was so completely different from what I usually seek and love… and yet I would move to China in a heartbeat! (It was considered a possibility at some point, since the company Alex works for also has offices in China…)

This building features these lanterns year-long, it has nothing to do with the festivities… but isn’t it beautiful?

After our little incursion in the heart of the fair, we headed toward Kearny and Post, where we were planning to watch the parade. We were 45 minutes early, but most of the good spots on the sidewalk were already taken! We posted ourselves in the middle of the street and proceeded to wait for the parade to begin.

It was a beautiful day, perfectly reasonable temperature-wise, but one gets cold standing for hours without moving much – even surrounded by tons of people! Alex had warned me it would get cold, but he entirely forgot to follow his own advice…

The parade began a couple of blocks away from where we were, but we could hear the firecrackers and the music closing on us, making the anticipation rise a few notches.

I didn’t bring my flash on purpose, thinking it would bother the performers, but everyone had their flashes on… Sorry for the blurry pictures!

It was a fantastic parade, full of colors, firecrackers and great performances!

Here are my tips if you plan to attend San Francisco’s Chinese New Year Parade in the future:

  • Arrive early (an hour should be good). Lots of people were there with blankets and folding chairs.
  • Dress warm! It might be mild and comfortable at first, but I guaranty you it will get cold! Bring gloves! And a hat! And a scarf! And maybe double-socks…
  • From what I heard, the performers get tired toward the end of the circuit and show much less enthusiasm. One thing to think about when choosing where you want to watch…
  • Many street blocks get closed, making it difficult to leave early. We had to go down the BART station to get out of the block where we were.
  • Restaurants around will be packed crazy!
  • If you want to take pictures, I think the best location would be around the bleachers in front of the Macy’s. That’s where they film the parade, so huge spots light the place. This is also where the judges are located, so the best performances happen there!
  • The parade is nearly 3 hours long – that’s without the hour you waited to get a good spot, and the hour it can take to get out when it’s over – so you  may want to bring snacks. It took us a good hour and a half before we could find a restaurant with a reasonable waiting time… By then we were almost shaking from hunger! (I was fantasizing about a milk shake with a cake slice blended in! Does it exist?)

We left early, too cold and tired to make it to the end… but our quest for a restaurant magically brought us back to the parade right in time to see the spectacular 250 feet Golden Dragon – brought to life by 100 martial artists! I will take it as a good omen for the coming year :)

Here’s to a terrific Year of the Dragon! I wish you all YOUR BEST YEAR EVER!

The strange life of a resident alien

Resident alien… that’s what they call a person who is legally permitted to remain in a country which is foreign to her. It’s an interesting life, the life of a resident alien… full of wonders and novelty – but also full of uncertainty.

Alcatraz, San Francisco. Do we need to say our goodbyes?

I talked last week about the month of January having ended on a sour note for Alex and I. I didn’t want to write about it before telling my family but now that it’s done: the company Alex works for decided to recall its technical team to Paris. What this means for us is that unless Alex can find a new job here, there’ll be a change of location for us in 2012.

Our lives are currently under the sign of the question mark. We have no idea what will happen. Will we go back to Quebec? Will we move to Paris? Will we manage to stay here in San Francisco? Will we give the finger to all this and go on a trip around the world?

We honestly don’t know.

For now, we stay open to any scenario and we explore our options.

We also try not to forget the reason we’re here: to experience the area and have fun. That means going out for the Super Bowl even if you’re still shattered by the sudden change of alignment in the stars. That means going to the Chinese New Year Parade this week-end. That means planning (barely) a group trip to Las Vegas for the end of February.

If there’s something you have to learn quickly when you move to another country, it’s to deal with the unexpected.

*Sigh*…

TILT – Things I Love Today

January was a great month, but it ended on a sour note for Alex and I. To counterbalance with a pretty crappy week, I decided I needed to focus on the good things in life. Here’s a small list of the things that currently make me happy and keep me sane.

Video game controller on giant calendar

  • Playing Dragon Age II (even if the game is disappointing in many ways).
  • Reconnecting with the characters of my novel.
  • Reading bits of my novel and thinking “I wrote that?”
  • Ordering shoes through Zappos’ VIP shop and receiving them THE NEXT DAY!!!
  • Coconut butter (recipe to come soon).
  • The prospect of buying Skyrim at the end of the month if I’m a good girl (I usually never buy recent games, always wait ’til they’re down to 20$… but I’m really excited about playing this one).
  • The release of the new Final Fantasy XIII-2 last Tuesday (even though I’ll wait a while before playing… see note above).
  • Also had a great time watching the first Vaginal Fantasy Book Club Hangout hosted by Felicia Day on Google Air (even if I have a hard time with that kind of book… I freakin’ hate the first person POV that’s so popular in that genre). Still, it was nice listening to other nerdy girls (2 of which are from SF! Represent!) and there was some pretty funny moments. I don’t exactly feel more connected, but at least less alone.
  • Ripping off the month of January from my humongous Stendig calendar. Deeply satisfying, feels like moving on.

These are a few of my favorite things. And I already feel better just thinking about it.

More news next week, promise!